I'm back at work after a semi-working weekend. Had some amazing family visits and of course a visit with some vanilla friends. These are friends that sort of know we're into kinky stuff but not the full extent of is. @wifeyincharge obviously told them about The Zapper.
Today I'm feeling comfortable in my cage. Looking forward to being productive and just a good guy in general.
Yesterday a delivery arrived. Our dog shock collar! Haven't opened the package yet as I'm waiting for @wifeyincharge to do it, she's been so excited about this arriving!
After opening it and giving it a try it has an interesting zap to it. So far it seems like ball sack skin doesn't experience as much of a shock as, for example, my arm.
I'll keep you updated on this experiment it looks like it's going to be used a lot.
We had a good session last night. We started off with drinking some wine and chatting in our garden after work.
This progressed to @wifeyincharge eventually lying naked between my legs on our bed, getting a face and head massage. @wifeyincharge loves me playing with her hair and I have discovered get's very horny when I rub her ear lobes and the shell of her ears. She flipping me over and rubed herself to orgasm against my right glute.
She loves the feeling of taking me and "doing me" from behind while pushing my head into the bed pushes the right buttons. Stroked her to another orgasm after that with her on her back and her pussy well lubricated from the action moments before.
I'd love to explore more pegging.
No climax for me and no pussy. I was rock hard!
Something to keep an eye out when starting something like Chastity and FLR with a partner is momentum. In the beginning everyone is worked up and excited. Dreams of weekly spankings and weeks of denial meet the drudgery of normal life.
Last night celebrated 33 days of orgasm denial and having spend that time locked whenever @WifeyInCharge was not there to supervise any misuse of her speen. Since it was Heritage Day in South Africa we celebrated by having a braai, drinking wine and just chilling out.
As the sun started disappearing the cool night air tempted us back inside and it was while is was rubbing lotion into her skin to keep the tan we got earlier from peeling that the juices started flowing...
One of the supposed side-effects of being locked up is that the device will stop you from having erections! Really? Let's unpack this...
Today was a little bit of a breakthrough for us on the FLR front. Sucking her nipples without her first inviting me to do so is off limits. In fact, she later decided that touching and cuddling them without her specifically asking for it will no longer be allowed.
This is the first real "rule" that my wife has come up with on her own. She decided on this just before I was about to wrap my lips around her delicious nipple while she was watching TV. A long teasing session left me throbbing and she wanted something to keep that energy going.
The result of this is that I am now totally fixated on her tits. I am constantly thinking about touching and tasting them, not only because they are beautiful and irresistible but because it's forbidden! Forbidden fruit tastes sweetest.
I've seen a change in her as well. Just as I am now far more focused on her breasts, she too seems to be enjoying teasing me with them far more than she did previously. She knows how much more I crave them and is beginning to enjoy that she is getting the reaction she wants by denying me access to them.
At this point I'm not sure how long we'll keep this up or whether it will be the first of many such things to our budding FLR games - I can only hope.
